I will warn you now there are
some things in this post not for the whole family….
In the course of work today, I
was listening to the Morning Blaze on IHeart radio as I do most mornings. It can be very funny and libertarian slanted,
as I have become. One if the topics
today was Ashley Judd and her op-ed about the foul and disgusting tweets she
received after she made some harsh criticism of the Arkansas Razorbacks style
of play in the SEC tourney. While she
criticized the Razorbacks, she in no way deserved the backlash their fans gave
her. I would never justify what was
said to her, but as we know if you are famous and put it on social media, you
are going to take it on the chin by some people.
Ms. Judd’s op-ed was basically
calling these guys out and making herself the next martyr for women’s rights
against the sexist pig men... Again the
response to her initial comments about the Razorbacks was not warranted and
really WAY out of line.
She later went on some news program to discuss her opinion piece and
stated that she was pressing charges against these people who called her all
sorts of lovely things and described in detail where they wanted to do with
their daddy parts. Doc and Skip, the
host of the Morning Blaze, was going on about how over blown her response
was. I TOTALLY agree them on this.
They close out the show with a
segment call “What I learned today.” This
is where the host and staff of the show tell what they learned during the
course of the show. The overwhelming
thing learned today was Ashley Judd’s twitter handle is @ashleyjudd. So being the smart ass I am I tweeted:
The whole point was to let Ashley
know that I thought she needed to get over herself. While what was said about her on Twitter was
awful, did it really have any consequences on her life? After I tweeted it, I though no more about
it…. Until this afternoon.
I was getting ready to leave work
when my phone vibrated. I looked to see
what it was and someone responded to one of my tweets. I looked at it and Ashley tweeted me
back. Not believing that it happened, I
opened it up to find this:
“Well that escalated quickly” I
thought to myself. So I thought I would
let Ms. Judd know my intent of my original tweet, so I responded. Now remember you only have 130 characters so
you can’t be too in depth.
Well that didn’t settle too well
with Ms. Judd. She basically told
me I was the same as a rapist or a woman abuser:
I may not smarter than your
typical Hollywood actor, but I think she called me as bad as a rapist. Well that wasn’t enough for her; she had to
get her last dig in:
Did she say I wasn’t a man
too?!?!?! I hate to tell Ashley, but it
is really hard to tell what a person believes in 130 characters. Disparaging a person’s character on Twitter is
part of what her original op-ed was about wasn’t it?
After this Ms. Judd blocked me
from Twitter and that was it… for her.
Others of her followers wanted to bash me proceeded to block me when I
attempted to defend my position. That’s
a typical narrow minded person.
While I probably should have chosen
not to address Ms. Judd in my original tweet, I do this with lots of famous
people. Whether it is giving famous people
a S/O or dogging them, I reach out on Twitter all the time. So when I put myself out there, I expect
that I sometimes will take a hit or two.
As I told Ms. Judd, it is the nature of the beast. When you are famous, as she is, you are a
bigger target. I am a little fat guy conservative
libertarian from Cleves Ohio of course I am not going to take the heat she
does. She is a famous, liberal, movie
star who tweets a lot. She also says
things that piss people off (I know the feeling Ashley). You’re either ready to take the heat or get
off social media. This is what I was
trying to express in my Tweet.
I think of the ungodly things
that conservative women like Sarah Palin and Ann Coulter have to take on social
media, in the media, and in blogs on a daily basis. It is downright disgusting. It is every bit as crappy as the stuff that
Ashley Judd heard from the Razorback fans.
Do you hear them bitching, moaning, or writing op-eds about it? Nope they generally ignore it. They may make a smart ass comment about it
and go on. Again, this is what Ms. Judd
should have done.
I am sorry women have to hear the
crap they hear. Misogyny should not
happen today. Neither should Christian bashing, gay bashing,
race bashing, fat bashing, physical/mental challenged bashing, or any other
bashing. That being said, life isn’t
fair. You have two choices: 1) you can
run, hide, and cry (I have done that), or you can have thicker skin and ignore
them. If you can’t have thick skin, GET
OFF SOCIAL MEDIA!
What I learned today…. Me and Ms. Judd have a lot to work on.
In closing, my opinion about Ms. Judd hasn't changed. I think is is a fantastic actress, amazingly beautiful, and a principled woman who is very dedicated for her causes. I will not let this have any determining factor for me seeing her movies. I also wish her nothing but happiness and joy in her life. This is just another thing she and I will not see eye to eye on.